A Matsayinku na maza ga abubuwa 4 da ya kamata ku sani Game da Matsalar Mata
A matsayinka na Namiji.
Wataƙila kana sane da cewa mata suna yin haila sau ɗaya a wata wanda kuma aka sani da lokaci.
An ayyana lokutan azaman asarar ƙaramin jini na kwanaki uku zuwa biyar. Haila abu ne da yakamata maza su sani.
Zai taimaka muku samun kyakkyawar fahimta game da matar ku da alakar ku.
Ga Abubuwa 7 Ga Maza. Lokaci Yana Da Muhimmi Don Fahimta.
- Lokaci Ba Kullum Sauki Ne.
Kowace mace tana son mijinta ya kasance yana da fahimtar haila da yadda take jinin Haila ba kawai game da tabon jini bane kowane wata.
Mata kuma suna rasa endometrium, wanda shine rufin mahaifa.
Lokacin da mace ta kasance a lokacin al’ada ko sake zagayowar, rufin yana taimakawa a cikin ɗokin ƙwai mai hadi, amma idan ba ta da juna biyu, ba a buƙatar nama.
Za ta sami haila na kowane wata, wanda ke ɗaukar kwanaki 3-5, saboda haka a matsayina na namiji, kuna buƙatar sanin tsarin jikinta da yanayin haila.
- Cramps Fara.
Maza, yakamata ku fahimci cewa waɗannan raɗaɗin na gaske ne, kuma wasu mata suna fuskantar rashin jin daɗi a duk lokacin haila. Don haka yana da kyau idan kun san matarka kuma ba ku amsa abubuwan da take yi ko raunin da take ciki yayin da take cikin wani hali.
Labara Masu Alaka
Wasu lokuttan ana samun sabani tsakanin saurayi da budurwa amma kuma sai kaga ana daukar lokaci mai tsawo ba tare da an shiya ba shiyasa muka kawo muku wasu dubaru ta yadda zaku shirya bayan samun sabani
Gaskiyar ita ce, dangantakar da ba ta ɗan samu sabani ko jayayya ba kafin ta ƙare. Al’ada ce a gare ku ku yi muhawara da masoyin ku akan wani abu ko kuma ku biyun ba ku yarda da wani al’amari ba.
Wannan jayayya ko jayayya na iya haifar da ko dai yarinyar ko saurayin. Lokacin da samari ke haifar da su, yawancin su ba su san abin da za su gaya mata kawai don su ji daɗin ta ba.
To ina kawo wannan bayanin zuwa ƙofar ku kamar yadda zan gaya muku abubuwan da za ku gaya wa yarinyar da kuke so lokacin da take fushi da ku.
Yawancin mata lokacin da aka gaya musu wannan za su ja da baya. Kuna iya ci gaba da cewa ku yi hakuri, ba zan sake yi ba, don Allah ku yafe min.
- “Ba na jin daɗin sanya ku cikin baƙin ciki, me zan yi don in daina
Wannan na iya sa ta yi kuka da yawa amma a ƙarshe tana iya ƙarewa a rungume kuma a ƙarshe za ta gafarta maka
- Kowane minti da kika kashe kina fushi dani minti daya ne da zaki iya amfani da shi don yin abin da kika fi so. Don Allah za ki iya daina fushi da ni ?.
- Saboda ni, ina fatan kina mai yafiya kamar yadda kike kyakkyawa.
Wani lokacin hanya mafi kyau don dawo da zuciyar mata shine ta sa ta yi murmushi da murmushi. Yawanci yana yin bambanci.
- Na fahimci zafin da kike ji saboda ni, don haka ki ɗauki duk lokacin da kike buƙata, lokacin da kika shirya, ina jiran ki.
- Mun fi zama tare, don Allah daina fushi da ni, am so sorry.
- Ba zan sake ɗauke ku daga rashi ba, don Allah ki ba ni dama don tabbatar da cewa wannan rashin fahimta ce kawai.
- Ina neman afuwa daga mafi zurfin zuciyata saboda sanya ki jin zafi, don Allah ki yafe min.
- Rashin yin magana da ke kwanakin baya ya kasance mai wahala, don Allah ban so in ci gaba da rayuwa haka ba.
- Duk abin da ya faru, na san laifina ne, don Allah me zan yi in sa ki yafe min.
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